“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief and unspeakable love.” ~ Washington Irving
Life-death-rebirth transitions are passages which bring about physical, emotional, and spiritual maturation. Many of us have difficulty accepting or moving through loss of any kind— let alone the kind that unravels us to our core, and challenges us to find the spiritual strength to live in the midst of such devastating pain.
During these dark moments of the soul, I find solace in knowing that we are all here for a purpose, a soul mission. Some of us complete our soul’s purpose earlier than others; therefore, our time in a physical body is shorter. Yet, we all originate and return home to our eternal divine source regardless of our chronological age.
As part of our soul blueprint, not all of us intend to be born or live an extended physical life. Some of us are only here for a short time to ground our human experience through the birth or physical process. We come to Earth to acquire whatever spiritual information we need for our continued soul progression. For example, it’s like stopping for a layover when traveling by plane to an eternal destination.
Our soul blueprint impacts the choices we make before we are born―such as choosing our body, gender, parents, and the genetic and environmental circumstances―of our physical life. We are responsible for these prior choices and how they affect our current choices while living on Earth. The conscious awareness that we made such choices before we were born can empowers us to make choices during our lives that help us shift to a higher soul vibrational frequency.
Each person’s soul journey is unique; yet, we are energetically connected to others for our personal transformation. Ultimately, we cannot know another’s soul journey, even when that person is as close to us as a child, spouse, or parent. It’s essential that we acknowledge that whatever choices they make are part of their soul’s path—even when that choice is to transition early through death. We can celebrate and be grateful for the precious time we’ve had with them, even if it’s only a few years, months, or moments. Regardless of the length of time we’ve spent together physically, our love and connection transcends the physical universe, and energetically resides in the eternal space of the soul.
There is no preparation we can undertake for the life-shattering loss of a loved one. It is an unfathomable pain that penetrates our lives and pierces our hearts. However, we can choose to honor our soul connection with our loved one by transforming our loss into love. We can channel the energy released at our loved one’s death by putting their powerful light to positive use.
Debra so true
my best action was in those moments to reflect back on the memories and how they would want me to be
I love this Suzie…being the best person we can be gives tribute to the memory of those we love <3
At a Soul Level, I feel this post was written so I could reflect on how I’m feeling about my Dad’s 15th death anniversary that’s coming up soon. Losing a loved one, especially a parent creates a void that never quite fills up and while my Hindu Faith tells us what your post is conveying, it’s easier for me to listen to a friend than a priest.
One lifetime is never enough to spend with people or pets we love and the best way to honor our time with them is to love them while they’re around and know that we will meet again in another dimension.
I’m happy my post has touched your soul today Vatsala and brings you a reminder of your own faith. One lifetime isn’t ever enough to spend with those we love. The best way to honor all of them including ourselves to love more deeply, widely, and soulfully. <3
Beautiful article Debra. As you say,”Each person’s soul journey is unique.” I have experienced a great deal of loss as you know. My husband has not lost a parent (even thought they are almost 90) and we are about to lose his amazing mother who has been in the hospital for 8 weeks. She is one of the most interesting woman I have met. Strong, courageous, humorous, a teacher still working until the stroke, and has always been youth-full enjoying life to the fullest. The family is grieving as they know she is ready to go soon. Your article brings peace to my heart. Thank you kind courageous loving friend! xo
You do have so much experience with loss Debra and have moved through those losses with love and grace. I’m holding you and your husband in love and light as he navigates this transition process with you. I know with you by his side he will have all the support he needs. It is my joy that I could bring peace to your heart at a difficult time. Much love <3
Thank you Debra – gratitude hugs and love from our hearts to yours! <3
Beautiful and soul searching Debra! Thank you for sharing
Thank you Leila <3
I especially love the last part of the blog how you chose to end it. States it very well. We are souls, energetic beings, first and foremost. Remembering that is so very helpful.
Thank you Heather <3. We sometimes forget that we are immortal souls, energetic beings that have many ways of expressing oneself not just physically on Earth.
What a powerful and timely post. It feels good to be reminded that each of us has a unique sound blueprint — and that our missions are of varying lengths of time. Bless.
Thank you Andrea. Yes we all have soul blueprints that guide the choices we make before we come to Earth. Although it can always be changed especially when we complete our soul experiences here. <3
The initial emotional reaction of loss is indescribable. There are no words that can fully express the heart-break nor the pain of a loved one’s departure. You’re right, “There is no preparation we can undertake for the life-shattering loss of a loved one.” I’ve experience expected and unexpected passings of loved ones and both are just as emotionally shattering. It is through the experiences that I’ve learned that their transformation does not end our relationship; instead, our relationship takes on a different role at a heart-centered level. I honor and embrace the love-soul connection that remains between us. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experiences to help others understand loss through the lens of the soul.
Thank you CK! I’m glad to support all of us who go through the loss of a loved one. <3