We are in the midst of an evolution of love. We have the opportunity to open our hearts more than ever before, and experience love in ways we may not have been capable of in the past. Instead of operating from such fear-based polarities such as right/wrong, good/bad, and win/lose, we have the chance to awaken to the energetic power of love, which transcends physical time and form, and exists beyond problems, limitations, and suffering.
Knowing that we are love will heal us in such a profound way that we will become conduits for the expression of love with ourselves, loved ones, and the world. And, since unity and duality coexist, it is possible to experience unconditional, universal love in a conditional world without fragmenting or limiting ourselves, and thus enjoy more harmonious and fulfilling lives.
In order to evolve to a higher frequency of love energy, we have to release the polarized patterns of our conditional world. We have to transcend some of the most destructive patterns in human relationships and in the world at large—right/wrong, good/bad, and win/lose. The unfortunate consequences of such toxic patterns are judgment, blame, and punishment, which undermine any kind of relationship and make it difficult for people to accept each other’s differences. Focusing on our perceived differences instead of our spiritual connections, we perpetuate the illusion that we are separate from one another.
The patterns of right/wrong, good/bad, and win/lose are insidious in every relationship whether it’s between two people or two countries. We must honor another person’s point of view, perspective, and ultimately their journey instead of devaluing them for the choices they make. Such judgment only creates a power struggle. Making them feel wrong, bad, or like a loser may offer a temporary feeling of vindication and control, but getting stuck in these polarities can prevent the harmonious resolution of problems, the flow of positive energy, and the embracing of new possibilities.
For instance, suppose you and your partner have a joint checking account and find out that a check your partner wrote has bounced. You immediately blame your partner for the overdraft rather than first finding out what actually happened. In this situation, acknowledge the unintentional mistake and let go of the need to be right and your partner wrong. This will restore harmony in the relationship. In all relationships, the pattern of right/wrong serves no purpose, closes off vital life force energy, and perpetuates toxicity instead of well-being.
Even though many people think they are making choices based on a positive outlook―such as choosing “good” over “evil,” or “right” over “wrong,” their egos see the world as polarized and people as different from us. Yet, when we transcend this limited view and elevate to a perspective inspired by universal love, we see beyond such polarities, and beyond the egos which created them, into a more universal, encompassing, and loving worldview.
Our evolution from lives based on fear, anger, and negativity to lives based on universal love requires us to view life through the lens of a higher awareness, and to be in tune with the voice of spirit. It’s also imperative that we become aware of our polarized patterns so we can make more positive choices for ourselves, as well as for the higher good of humanity. Like a periscope in a submarine, we must lift our gaze out of the shadowy aspects of human consciousness and obtain a more elevated, transcendent perspective.
We must be clear that we are, first and foremost, spiritual beings navigating the sea of human processes, and we must trust that love has the power to open our hearts, raise our vibration, and dissolve negativity. When we act from this perspective, we transcend positions of good/ bad, win/lose, and right/wrong, and recognize that our goal is not to fight those who have fear-based polarized patterns but rather to join in sacred community with those who have already committed their lives to love.
